bh and i were having a conversation about our blogs and why more people visit mine than his. he says it’s because mine’s like blog seinfeld while his is, well, not. and i reminded him that occasionally people get to his blog from mine, like way back when when i blogged about how unjust and unfair he was being to me on his blog and linked my complaint to his blog. he had a lot of blog traffic, like a lot more. but he only complained about that. said people were only coming to his blog to tell him how bad he was, that he felt like they were coming with pitchforks and torches yelling, “kill the monster.” this made me laugh. made me feel loved and understood. it didn’t have the same effect on him. it made him remove the offensive post – does that mean i won? which, then made me change my post. so, today, i’m defending him, telling the world that he is not a monster.