ghibli museum and some parasites

we were out of the apartment by 9:30 this morning.  it was so impressive.  but by the time we managed to get on the train at the station it was almost 11.  the early start had been blown because of forgotten passports and grabbing a quick breakfast.  oh well. during my fast walk back to the apartment to get the passports the rest of the family made a new friend.

s13 and he really hit it off.

eventually – once we said goodbye to our new friend and made sure we had everything we needed – it was time to get on the train to head to ghibli museum.  this was one of the places the kids were super excited about.  i’ve only seen one ghibli movie, spirited away, but they’ve seen almost all of them.  we had to ride the train to the end of the line and then it was just a short 15 minute walk to the museum.  or at least it would have been had i read the instructions i wrote down correctly.  i swear i read north.  and a few minutes into our journey we came across a quaint little mochi shop and i’d read that there was one on the way to the museum.

   

cherry mochi.  yum.

20 min into our 15 minute walk i finally stopped to ask someone where the museum was?  they couldn’t give me exact directions, but did manage to make it clear to me that the park was on the other south side of the train station.  we got ourselves turned in the right direction and – with the smallest amount of grumbling – set off in the correct direction.  funny enough, once we made it back to the station and out the other entrance there were signs pointing the way.  that made a lot more sense.  cameras aren’t allowed inside the museum so all the pictures are from the grounds of the museum.

   

the ghibli museum is amazing.  i wish i’d seen a few more of the movies so i could get the full benefit of the exhibits, but no matter, it was well worth the having to get up early and the getting lost on the way.  we had lunch at the museum.  there were two options in the line we got in.  hotdogs or curry and rice.  both were pretty good.  and catbus enjoyed a few beers.

 

once we were finished up at the museum it was time to get back on the train and head back a few stops so we could visit the meguro parasitological museum.  this was high on my list of must sees.  i’d read a review that described it as “amazing and a little bit terrible.”  i’m not sure i agree with that assessment.  i would go a bit heavier on the descriptives for terrible.  it was gross.   but i still took a few pictures.

not sure how necessary this sign is. while i was inside i couldn’t begin to imagine eating or drinking.

that’s one long tape worm.

 

we barely made the museum before closing time and when we were done there we had a bunch of hungry kids on our hands.  i had a great place for dinner scheduled, but language difficulties and bad directions caused that to be put on hold for another day.  instead we opted for taking a long train ride and eating a just okay japanese meal for dinner and then it was home to rest up for whatever big adventures tomorrow might bring.

ryogoku and akihabara

we’re still rocking the can’t get ready and leave the apartment before noon thing so snackfast (that’s snack/breakfast – you know, just a little something to tide us over until we could find something more substantial) today came from the local 7.  and everybody seemed pretty content with that.  s13 & michael had american dogs or, as we call them in america, corn dogs.  the rest of us went the sushi route.

but one thing impressed us all -

yes, that is a ketchup and mustard packet.  so smart.

after lunch we were off to the train.  not sure what was different about today, but there were many school girls and their moms in the terminal – those uniforms and bags are so cute.

we managed to get tickets to the correct stop without any help at all today.  we didn’t look even slightly confused.  once we got to the station we went in search of the sumo museum and on our way we came across more bicycle parking.

we might have made a wrong turn out of the station and ended up going the long way around to the sumo museum, but a little more walking never hurt anyone, right?  once we got there we were sad to discover that there was an invite only kimono exhibition going on at the arena – and we didn’t have invites.  however, we could still get into the museum and the gift shop.  we weren’t allowed to take pictures in the museum, but we did get a few around the museum.

after the sumo museum we found lunch.  i’m not a huge fan of chinese food, so this wasn’t my favorite, but it was okay.

with full bellies we were off in search of yokoamicho park and the tokyo memorial hall and the great kanto earthquake memorial museum.  the memorials weren’t huge, but they were meaningful.

  

after yokoamicho park we made a quick jog across the street to kyu yasuda garden.  this wasn’t on the itinerary for the day – we just dumb lucked into it.

i also discovered that not all potties in japan are fancy japan potties.

the squatty potty hand rail is a nice touch.

after some relaxing in the garden we headed back to the train and, if i were kind i’d stop this post now, but our day continued and so must this post.  next stop – akihabara (this was a selection made by a16) – anime central, just one of many in tokyo.  today i learned that anime is not just for kids.  i ended up in comic book store where i am 100% certain i was the wrong gender and the wrong age for entrance.  shocking!

  

 

 

we also discovered maid cafes.  i mean we discovered their existence – we didn’t actually go in one.  i’m not sure i get the novelty of them.  but some folks must, because there are more than one.

  

 

sumida-ku

you know how way-back-when when someone had their vacation pictures processed and then forced you to look through them all? that might be what my tokyo posts turn into.

the goals for today’s outing where the tokyo sky tree and ended up with a bonus – the world beer museum.  we started with competently managing the trains – well, mostly competently.  we also learned that if 5 white folks stand in front of the train map looking lost some kind person will step up to help.  thanks kind people.

  

michael was in charge of today’s itinerary and i didn’t study it too closely.  the only real goal we had for today was the tokyo sky tree.  michael knew he wanted to go to the world beer museum at some point, but we hadn’t connected the dots, yet, so we weren’t aware that they were at the same location until we were at said location.

we started with the beer museum – well, we actually started out getting our tickets for the sky tree and then ended up with a three hour wait and since we had empty bellies lunch was where we started.

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after lunch we still had some time to kill so we wandered the mall and took advantage of several photo ops.

   

then the tree.  the sky tree.

the first stop was 350m.

then we headed up to 451.2m.

the pictures from that high looked surprisingly similar to the ones from the level below – i can’t tell which are which.  but we did find a mirror.

after the sky tree we were all exhausted.  we picked up dinner to go and headed home.  we took the long way to the nearest train station.  or rather the second nearest, the nearest didn’t have a train going the direction we needed it to go in.  but while we were wandering we did come across two separate bicycle parking lots.  bikes seem as big here as motorbikes in chiang mai.

we also got a cool view of the tokyo sky tree.  i bet the view from up there at night is amazing.

we made it back to the apartment and tucked in for dinner.  what did we eat?  pork cutlet sandwiches.  they were on a must eat while you’re in tokyo list that google showed me, so when i saw that we could get them at the mall (the brand google recommended no less) we went for it.  they were good.  i’d put them in the comfort food category.  and there’s no shame in being comfort food.

  

    

yoyogi park

tokyo – day one.  (i’ve done the planning for this vacation with the help of the many people who have taken the time to rate must see attractions in tokyo.)  today we started with yoyogi park.  getting a late start (it was after 12:00 by the time everyone got up and dressed) wasn’t the best for being able to fully enjoy the goings on at yoyogi park, but we still had a great time.

we started our trip out hungry so first order of business was finding lunch.  which meant a walk out of our neighborhood for a little exploring.  right off the bat we came across a picture of tommy lee jones hawking canned coffee.  who knew?

then we found a mirror.

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we walked down ninja alley – that’s not an official name, but since we know we are staying in the ninja district michael’s certain this is where they did their ninja stuff.  just like michael.

a restaurant.  where we had to point and pray that the pictures were a good representation for what we ordered.

not one complaint – everyone left happy and full.  right now we’re all in agreement that japanese food rocks.

 

dr. pepper in japan – what the what??

  

we tackled the train system next.  i didn’t get any pictures of our struggles doing this.  it wasn’t overly difficult, but the language barrier was noticeable and it took a lot of focus to make sure we got headed the right direction.  but once we got where we were headed we came out of the station to see takeshita street and lots of people – including these gals who seemed to be just hanging out.

and then we got lost.  so we did lots of walking.  and this drove by us – i had no idea what they were but the guys got very excited.  from what i could gather from what the boys were saying is that they’re like life size rock ‘em sock ‘em robots.  i can see that they could be pretty cool.

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chan decided to see if he could help.  he took the map and had a seat – a wet seat.  he was a big help – laughter always lightens the mood.

eventually we found yoyogi park.  where we were greeted by some very friendly folks.  we grabbed a few free hugs and high fives, but they were so fast we didn’t get any pictures.

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finally we headed into the park.

it was beautiful.  and cool.  but not too cold.  just right.  there were fish to look at and turtles to watch.

and some not so fancy potties with worrisome signs.

barrels of sake wrapped in straw.  you can read about it if you want.

casks of wine for consecration.

and incredibly we came across the travelocity gnome.

it’s a little known fact that gnomes take all the get-up-and-go out of you.

eventually we did get up and go again.  and – amazingly – we found another mirror.

we finished at the park and headed out for the two other things on my list that we had to do while we were in this part of tokyo.  one was find the hachikō statue.

go us!  and the other was see shibuya crossing.  conveniently, that’s where the hachikō statue is located.

we were all exhausted and hungry so we ate at mcdonald’s.  that was chan’s choice.  he says you’re supposed to try mcdonald’s everywhere you go.  it’s some kind of travel law – or something.  i don’t know what i ordered, but it was pretty good.  everyone else ordered what they would have at any other mcdonald’s and they said it was better than they’d had before.  the only thing i’m certain of is that this extablishment had the best  fancy japan potty i’ve ever experienced at a mcdonald’s.

the button that looks like it plays music doesn’t really.  it plays toilet flushing sounds.  my guess is for discretion.

movin’ on

“maybe it’s human nature to think one’s own situation is the unique and incomparable one, the transcendent exception.”  ~ sue monk kidd the mermaid chair

chan and i left chiang mai yesterday and the goodbyes at the airport were a validation that our decision to move here was a good one.  it was emotional and so very painful, but also proof of how he threw himself into life here.

knowing we’re not the first to make this journey doesn’t make it any easier.  but it is helpful to know others have survived it, their kids have flourished, and it’s all been worth it.  i can’t wait to see what the next few years bring for chan and i hope he takes on university life the same way he’s done it here.  but before we tackle the next few years we’ve got a week in tokyo to take on.  (it was on the flight from bangkok to tokyo that i came across that quote from sue monk kidd.)

we seem to like to take the not the easiest way possible route when it comes to travel when we go to and from the states and why would we choose to do it differently for a family vacation.  michael, a16, and s13 left friday night for bangkok and had an all night layover before heading to tokyo – via kuala lumpur.  maybe not the most direct route, but to hear them tell it it was up there with one of the most miserable.  chan and i left chiang mai saturday morning (16 hours after the other guys) we flew to bangkok had a two hour layover and then headed to tokyo.  directly to tokyo.

they took the yellow route. we took the purple one.

we arrived 1/2 an hour before them and our first stop was the fancy japan potties.

after our pit stop we went got our passports stamped and then on to collect our luggage.  since we were ahead of the rest of the family we went ahead and gathered their luggage, too.  they made it in, we all went through customs and then it was time to figure out how to go about finding the apartment we’d rented for the week.  luckily we had an address in japanese and our taxi driver could read japanese (amazing, i know.)  our two bedroom apartment was bigger than we expected.  it has a washing machine.  and best of all it’s vey own fancy toilet.

it was well past midnight at this point and we had 3 hungry kids on our hands.  so michael and i braved it and found a convenience store where we picked up some assorted snacks.  including the goldilocks and the three bear version of cup noodle.

we were all asleep by 3am.  that’s way past my bedtime and we ended up sleeping a tad late on Sunday morning.  which was alright, because i’d purposely left sunday as a pretty easy tourist day.

graduation

graduation was last week.  it was an awesome evening and somewhat emotional.  i went to last year’s graduation and thought i was prepared for this year’s.  but i was wrong.  turns out watching other kids graduate doesn’t prepare you for when it’s your own.  that’s probably true for lots of things in life.

it started with the processional.  the board of directors, administration, and faculty came first (which was sort of cool, because i’ve just finished my term on the board so i got to proceed in, too) followed by the graduates.

and then came many things that aren’t unique to graduation.  the welcome, a hymn, scripture reading and invocation, speeches by the valedictorians (there were two), the salutatorian, and the class president.  next up was something that i think is pretty unique to their school – the presentation to parents.  at this point in the program the seniors are asked to stand and come pick up a jasmine lei to present in gratitude to their parents.  i saw this last year, it was emotional then, but also seemed like it might be a bit contrived.  and when i told michael to prepare for it – days before graduation – that was his response.  it would seem scripted and lack any true feeling.

he might have been wrong about that.

then everyone composed themselves and the ceremony continued.  the keynote speaker was next – the graduates chose a faculty member to give this speech.  finally we were to the presentation of the diplomas.

this is a pretty special picture because the board rep handing chan the diploma has since moved back to the states taking with her one of s13′s closest friends.

they call each senior up and announce their plans for the following year.  it’s one more reminder of how spread out this group of kids is going to be in the very near future.  then came the board’s message it was presented by the same wonderful lady who handed out the diplomas.  she had many wise words and much encouragement for the graduates.  including the reminder that their hearts “will always march to a global beat.”  and i really hope that’s true for chan.  and then it was time to wrap it up.  but before the kids could leave there was one last photo op.

this was also a perfect time for one last impromptu singing of the school song.  i don’t know about anyone else, but i sure enjoyed it.

then it was out to the basketball for a community reception.

and something else i was not prepared for.  the gifts – the lovely bouquets, graduate teddy bears, more bouquets, books, and flowers.  these were given by many very generous parents who chan has gotten to know pretty well over the years.

pretty quickly the night was over.  the graduates all headed out to celebrate and the families headed out for dinner.

i know we’re supposed to be moving forward now, but i’m still not ready to do that.  i’m sure i’ll get there – eventually.  it would probably be easier to do if i’d stop looking at that pic of chan and michael.  i cry. everytime.

better with age

last year there was a post on the oprah blog that listed 24 things that get better with age.  24 seems an odd number.  25 would be better.  i’ve got an excellent idea as to what number 25 should be, but first the 24 from her list:

  • Ford Mustangs
  • A wheel of gouda
  • Sea Glass
  • A cast-iron skillet
  • Amish friendship bread
  • Cowboy boots
  • Scrapbooks
  • Single-malt scotch
  • Sense and Sensibility
  • Ivy-covered walls
  • Balsamic vinegar
  • Blue jeans
  • A rib-eye steak
  • Stereo headphones
  • Your sense of self
  • Love letters
  • Hardwood floors
  • Peonies
  • Sexual satisfaction
  • Chinese century eggs
  • A baseball mitt
  • Diamonds in the rough
  • Your vocabulary
  • George Clooney (this one seems somewhat subjective)

and here’s my suggestion for number 25 -

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this could also serve as a reminder that 10 years is too long to wait to have pictures taken.

born this way

tonight was the monologue and song competition for secondary students at the kids’ school.  both boys participated.  s13 performed a monologue and chan was part of a skit directed by one of his friends.  i am so proud of both boys.  the courage and confidence they show is worlds beyond what i had at their age – or even now for that matter.

s13′s monologue

chan’s skit.  or parts of it.  very small parts of it.

cheerio

today was the cheerio show at school.  this event occurs at the end of every school year – it’s a time to recognise and say goodbye to students and faculty who are leaving.  the biggest group of leaving students are the seniors.  but there are more than a handful of others who are also going.

today, as part of the celebration, the dance classes performed.  a16 is in beginner dance and they busted a groove or two.

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then the seniors were recognised

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class of 2013

i’m sure i’ll have plenty of more formal pictures of this group come graduation night.

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and then we got to see the seniors gift to the world – or at least the rest of the school.

the end is nigh

it’s getting to the end of the school year and that means it’s time for everything that needs to get done to get crammed in.

starting with the last band performance of the year.   except it’s not really, because the band plays at graduation and i’m pretty sure that’s the latest you can fit a performance in.
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i might not be the best at adding arrows to photos.  that arrow is pointing somewhere in the vicinity of a16.

and senior prom.  i’ve totally stolen pics from chan’s facebook, because i wasn’t invited.

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chan and his lovely prom date.

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singing something and meaning it

we’ve also had farewell to the leavers at church (it wasn’t actually called that this year, but it has been in the past.  and in an effort to sound cool and worldly – and maybe obnoxious – i’m gonna continue to use it.)

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these are the folks graduating from chan’s school srfarewellchurch

telling who he is and where he’s going

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apparently there is a correct graduate prayer posture.  i think chan’s almost nailed it.

we’ve still got a busy few weeks ahead of us.  and no need to worry about the lack of s13′s appearance in the blog lately – his time is coming.